
Originally Posted by
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Ugh. This depresses me. We have about 225k in edu debt for dh. And yes, we have defered the loans and will continue to until he is done with training. We have one private loan we took out to cover residency interviews and moving for residency which we are currently paying back. When we first took loans I was shocked at the repayment and how much and how fast the interest adds up. If we could pay down his debt during residency we would, it's just not possible. At least dh will be in a surgical career so we have hope we can live super frugal and pay it off fastish.
Chrisada- we also considered me working after oscar came but after crunching the numbers we would only have come out about $200 xtra a month and O would never see me or dh. You gotta be flexible and I'm dissapointed at your husbands narrowmindedness. Yes, debt and interest are scary. I had a hard time subcoming to the reality of it and taking it on, but it's necessary in some cases and just something one has to come to terms with.
I really don't understand the woman in the article. She's got her head in the clouds. If anything this article reafirmed my fear of loans and the mental dilligance required to pay them off & survive.