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			<title>Moral Psychology</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 05:44:45 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Please check out this TED talk and survey about moral psychology: 
 
http://www.ted.com/talks/jonathan_haidt_on_the_moral_mind.html...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Please check out this TED talk and survey about moral psychology:<br />
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<a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/jonathan_haidt_on_the_moral_mind.html" target="_blank">http://www.ted.com/talks/jonathan_ha...oral_mind.html</a><br />
<a href="http://www.yourmorals.org/" target="_blank">http://www.yourmorals.org/</a><br />
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I find this stuff endlessly fascinating and will definitely read Haidt's new book. The research helps explain why we have such a strong &quot;culture war&quot; going on over issues like SSM, abortion, and capital punishment (to name just a few), and helps us understand why each side thinks the way they do. One idea that he puts forth is that our response to a moral issue comes mostly from our emotional disposition rather than logic. (i.e. our reasoning is only used to justify the emotional response.)<br />
<br />
Anyway, here's my score for the sacredness survey (the first one on the yourmorals site):<br />
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Harm: 8.0<br />
Fairness: 8.0<br />
Ingroup: 8.0<br />
Authority: 7.2<br />
Purity: 8.0<br />
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I'm not quite sure what this says about me, but am curious what scores you all get (might be just as interesting as the Briggs-Myers results).</div>

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			<title>Book club</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 19:58:31 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I'm starting a book club with some friends to give us a reason to get out of the house and because it's always more fun reading a book when you have...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I'm starting a book club with some friends to give us a reason to get out of the house and because it's always more fun reading a book when you have people to talk with about it...<br />
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Anyhow, anyone in one?  I'm interested in the logistics of how yours are run since I'm pretty much throwing thus together all willy nilly.  How often and where do you meet?  For how long?  How is discussion facilitated?  In my mind, everyone would just gather and discuss, but I think that might not be structured enough for some people.  Do you pull questions off the Internet to get a starting point?  Just thought I'd get some ideas from the fountain!</div>

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			<dc:creator>lovelight</dc:creator>
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			<title>Medicine with a Family - Questions from a potential medical student</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 13:40:24 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>So, I was contacted by a gentleman who is on the wait-list to our medical school.  He has 4 kids, and this would be a career change for him.  When I...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>So, I was contacted by a gentleman who is on the wait-list to our medical school.  He has 4 kids, and this would be a career change for him.  When I spoke with him on the phone, he said he was interested in orthopaedics, but not surgery.  He recently sent me a few questions, and I figured I'd tap into the brain-trust here for some answers.  I also think this would be a good resource for people who come to our site :)<br />
<br />
Here we go!<br />
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1.)  What medical specialties would best allow me to spend time with and take care of my family? Worst?<br />
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2.)  It seems like work conditions during medical residency are largely based on who you are working for. If so, what should I consider when searching for a medical residency. What steps can I take to make a good choice for my family?<br />
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3.)  How possible would it be for me as a resident to have enough flexibility in my schedule to drop what I'm doing and go help my family with an immediate need?<br />
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4.)  More restrictions have been placed on resident duty hours recently. How well do institutions follow duty hours guidelines? Do you expect duty hours to change in four years? If so, how?</div>

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			<category domain="http://www.medicalspouse.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?102-Grand-Rounds">Grand Rounds</category>
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			<title>MN people</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 18:49:22 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[We're having a spouse get-together at my house Saturday at 7 pm.  If you're up for it, message me!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>We're having a spouse get-together at my house Saturday at 7 pm.  If you're up for it, message me!</div>

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			<category domain="http://www.medicalspouse.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?102-Grand-Rounds">Grand Rounds</category>
			<dc:creator>PrincessFiona</dc:creator>
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			<title>#ObamaInHistory</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 16:20:19 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Go to Twitter.  Search for this hashtag.  Laugh.  I do find it appalling that he would insert himself into all of those bios (imagine if every...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Go to Twitter.  Search for this hashtag.  Laugh.  I do find it appalling that he would insert himself into all of those bios (imagine if every president did that -- or even if a Republican did that), but at least it gave me something to laugh at this morning!<br />
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<a href="http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2012/05/16/white-house-under-fire-for-adding-obama-policy-plugs-to-past-presidents-bios/" target="_blank">http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2012...esidents-bios/</a><br />
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Funny page: <a href="http://twitchy.com/2012/05/15/all-the-presidents-ego-obamas-inserts-himself-into-other-presidential-biographies-obamainhistory-hilarity-ensues/" target="_blank">http://twitchy.com/2012/05/15/all-th...larity-ensues/</a><br />
<br />
See the bios for yourself: <a href="http://www.whitehouse.gov/about/presidents" target="_blank">http://www.whitehouse.gov/about/presidents</a> (start with Coolidge, he did skip one pres.)</div>

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			<category domain="http://www.medicalspouse.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?116-Debates">Debates</category>
			<dc:creator>v-girl</dc:creator>
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			<title><![CDATA[What's your MBTI personality type?]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 15:27:20 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[If you don't already know it, this seems to be the most reliable online test: 
  
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp 
  
I've been...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>If you don't already know it, this seems to be the most reliable online test:<br />
 <br />
<a href="http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp" target="_blank">http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp</a><br />
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I've been really into this lately because I'm trying to understand why I'm frequently misunderstood. :) (and always by the same people...I've reached the conclusion that it's not me...it's them. :p)<br />
 <br />
I'm an INTJ, which is pretty rare for a female. DH is also an INTJ, which actually works nicely because we really understand how the other thinks. Unfortunately, there are times when we disagree and if it's something based on opinion and not facts...well, we can hash it out for hours. :lol:</div>

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			<dc:creator>BonBon</dc:creator>
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			<title>Religious Observances During Residency</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 13:22:57 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>I caught up via phone the other night with a friend who is in her 2nd (almost 3rd) year of internal medicine residency at a large, well-known...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I caught up via phone the other night with a friend who is in her 2nd (almost 3rd) year of internal medicine residency at a large, well-known academic hospital.  She said things were going well but she was annoyed about Easter.<br />
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Apparently, months in advance, she had asked for Easter off.  Her DH, a neurosurgery resident, had also requested the day off and they looked forward to spending the day together and attending church.  She's an observant Catholic and attends Mass pretty much every weekend.  She was dismayed, however, when the schedule came out that she was not granted Easter off.  She ultimately decided not to complain but she was especially unhappy because there are several Orthodox Jewish residents in her program who never work on Saturdays.<br />
<br />
I was taken aback that a residency program was even able to accommodate the ability to not work ANY Saturdays.  And I was sad for my friend that her one-time request to celebrate such a holy day was ignored when clearly the program respects these requests from others.<br />
<br />
Then I thought, well I know Orthodox Jewish observants are not allowed to use technology during their Sabbath so that's an exception perhaps.  But then I thought, why should anyone get a pass? Aren't there lots of residents who would like time off to practice their own religion, spend time with their families, etc.?<br />
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Thoughts?</div>

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			<dc:creator>TulipsAndSunscreen</dc:creator>
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			<title>John Travolta</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 12:38:28 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[This is probably more gossipy than debatey, but one of dh's colleagues worked at a hotel in Minneapolis before med school.  Years ago he told us...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>This is probably more gossipy than debatey, but one of dh's colleagues worked at a hotel in Minneapolis before med school.  Years ago he told us about a couple of visits to the hotel by Travolta and how freaked out he was that Travolta hit on him.  (This doc is not gay and is married with 3 children now.).  He swore up and down that Travolta wasn't straight but no one has taken him very seriously.<br />
<br />
When the news started breaking about this stuff, he started to feel vindicated ....<br />
<br />
Kris</div>

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			<dc:creator>PrincessFiona</dc:creator>
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			<title>Camera Help!</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 05:07:39 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Hi All!!  
 
My grandmother (god love her) is taking me on a little mini vacay with her. We are going to be doing some underwater activities and I'm...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Hi All!! <br />
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My grandmother (god love her) is taking me on a little mini vacay with her. We are going to be doing some underwater activities and I'm wondering what your thoughts are on an underwater digital camera. Nothing too crazy (under $200) but something that will take good pictures in and out of the water... anyone have any recommendations?<br />
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xoxo</div>

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			<category domain="http://www.medicalspouse.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?131-Retail-Therapy">Retail Therapy</category>
			<dc:creator>MrsSz</dc:creator>
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			<title>When a text goes awry...</title>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 20:50:32 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Today I texted dd's teacher all about my conversation with her... I meant to send it to DH. :oops:  It was pretty harmless... but it could have been...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Today I texted dd's teacher all about my conversation with her... I meant to send it to DH. :oops:  It was pretty harmless... but it could have been so much worse. Anyone got some doozies?</div>

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			<category domain="http://www.medicalspouse.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?104-Mood-Makeovers-Gratitude-and-Inspiration!">Mood Makeovers:  Gratitude and Inspiration!</category>
			<dc:creator>scrub-jay</dc:creator>
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			<title>What the lifestyle has taught you.</title>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 20:05:47 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>I had an encounter with a new neighbor that made me think about how this journey made me view life a bit differently. Because we have moved around a...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I had an encounter with a new neighbor that made me think about how this journey made me view life a bit differently. Because we have moved around a bit, I am the first to go over to a newcomer and welcome them.  I make my kids invite the new kids over to play and my oldest is a student ambassador for new students in his school.  I guess that I have felt awkward and lonely enough to make this issue a top priority for me.  <br />
<br />
I also tend not to sweat the small stuff.  9 years of the grind of residency makes the rest of life seem like the Rose Bowl parade in comparison.  Sure, medicine has a dark seedy underbelly even as an attending, but it is night and day.<br />
<br />
I am far more confident because I have gone off and lived by myself and raised children as a quasi single mom.  I still don't know what I'm doing but I'm much more willing to trust my gut because I've done this alone and the little peeps are turning out just fine.  I'm not a confident person by nature, but this experience has made more confident.  <br />
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OK, your turn.</div>

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			<dc:creator>houseelf</dc:creator>
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			<title>Wedding Makeup</title>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 12:35:20 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Looking for some recommendations for wedding makeup.  I still need a good tear/sweat proof mascara and a good foundation. I love BIG mascara, and...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Looking for some recommendations for wedding makeup.  I still need a good tear/sweat proof mascara and a good foundation. I love BIG mascara, and I've been using a sample of Lancome &quot;Doll Lashes&quot; mascara lately, but it smudges under my eye by the end of the day. And the wedding will be in the midwest, outside, in July, so I definitely need something with more staying power. For foundation, I'm looking for something relatively lightweight but with staying power and non-oily. I already have a good primer and finishing powder. Any recommendations??</div>

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			<dc:creator>MsSassyBaskets</dc:creator>
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			<title>Reconsidering our decision to rent</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 16:42:59 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>DH and I just got back from our house hunting trip in AZ and although we thought we were sure we wanted to rent instead of buy since his residency is...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>DH and I just got back from our house hunting trip in AZ and although we thought we were sure we wanted to rent instead of buy since his residency is only three years, I'm having some serious second thoughts.  Because we are adamant about having a pool in the backyard for the kids, we found the rental houses with pools get snatched up VERY fast and command top dollar.  I was hoping we would be able to negotiate rent because we are willing to sign a three year lease and have immaculate credit and no pets, but we found that's an uphill battle when the rental market is so tight.  Competition is fierce for those pool properties!  In the end, we found one that we were able to get 7.5% lower than asking price.  It's an awesome house with everything we were looking for, but the rent is considerably more than I had hoped to pay.  The house we just sold had a RIDICULOUSLY low mortgage (you couldn't get a 1 bedroom apt for what we were paying) and allowed us to have a decent lifestyle during med school.  The rent on this house is three times what we were paying on our mortgage so perhaps my cold feet are just sticker shock.  <br />
<br />
I haven't talked to a mortgage broker yet, but it appears like we could buy a house with a pool in our desired neighborhood/school district for about $600 cheaper a month.  This savings coupled with the low interest rates and what appears like a bottomed out market has me really tempted to buy instead of rent.  Even if we needed to sell in three years and broke even, the monthly savings alone would make it worth it.  Wouldn't it?  Or if we decided to rent, I've seen firsthand how hot those pool rental homes are.  I need to make a decision quickly because the landlord is waiting for us to Fedex the signed lease and we're supposed to be moving in 4-5  weeks.  Ugh, this is all so late in the game for a change of plans!  Am I nuts to change horses now?  Or would it be financial stupidity to rent when we could buy for so much less?<br />
<br />
Please someone help me make a decision.  The indecision is making me crazy and I think DH is about to wring my neck...</div>

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			<dc:creator>MDPhDWife</dc:creator>
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			<title>To-Do List</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 13:03:44 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>A brief overview of my morning... 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>A brief overview of my morning...<br />
(You will probably have to zoom in to read it).<br />
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			<category domain="http://www.medicalspouse.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?137-Infants-and-Toddlers">Infants and Toddlers</category>
			<dc:creator>Thirteen</dc:creator>
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			<title><![CDATA[My sister's new CD!]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 13:02:27 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>My sister is a musician in Boston area. Her music is bluesy, gritty, poetic, at times R rated though.  Anyway, if any of you guys are into Indie...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>My sister is a musician in Boston area. Her music is bluesy, gritty, poetic, at times R rated though.  Anyway, if any of you guys are into Indie music, check this out! Or, check it out if you have any interest at all. ;)  You can preview all of the songs for free!  And HEY if you REALLY like it share it with your friends. <br />
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<a href="http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/kaitlindibble1" target="_blank">http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/kaitlindibble1</a></div>

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			<dc:creator>TigerLily</dc:creator>
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			<title><![CDATA[Happy Mother's Day]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 14:01:47 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Happy Mother's Day to all Moms and Moms-to-be! I'm enjoying my homemade pancakes and the *several* cards dd has been making for me all morning.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Happy Mother's Day to all Moms and Moms-to-be! I'm enjoying my homemade pancakes and the *several* cards dd has been making for me all morning.</div>

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			<dc:creator>scrub-jay</dc:creator>
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			<title>Same Sex Marriage</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 01:45:43 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>I want some real life opinion on this issue. I find it amazing that our current president has flip flopped on the issue so much and people are buying...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I want some real life opinion on this issue. I find it amazing that our current president has flip flopped on the issue so much and people are buying it!! <br />
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Anyway, I find it mind boggling that people don't care about the <i>actual</i> issue here. It isn't about same sex marriage, or TBH abortion, it is about the government being able to &quot;morally&quot; govern it's citizens. To me, this is just a slippery slope. I could care less if two men or two women marry, but I do understand those who do not believe it in. Yet, those people should not be able to force their beliefs on others on either side of the argument. <br />
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Thoughts?</div>

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			<dc:creator>MrsSz</dc:creator>
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			<title>Gcb</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 01:24:23 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>I. am. so. crushed. 
 
 
Rumor has it that GCB has been axed! I am sooo sad! I loved this show and the hilarity of it all and kicking the stereotypes...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I. am. so. crushed.<br />
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Rumor has it that GCB has been axed! I am sooo sad! I loved this show and the hilarity of it all and kicking the stereotypes of texas women in the teeth!!</div>

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			<dc:creator>MrsSz</dc:creator>
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			<title>Military Spouses appreciation day!</title>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 12 May 2012 02:26:35 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I heard that it's military spouses appreciation day today!  Here's to all of you who put up with moving orders and deployments and the whims of uncle...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I heard that it's military spouses appreciation day today!  Here's to all of you who put up with moving orders and deployments and the whims of uncle sam for the sake of your spouses!</div>

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			<dc:creator>poky</dc:creator>
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			<title>Nashville gift idea</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 17:58:38 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I need to get a gift for someone moving to Nashville for fellowship.  I'd like to get a gift certificate for a restaurant or somewhere at their new...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I need to get a gift for someone moving to Nashville for fellowship.  I'd like to get a gift certificate for a restaurant or somewhere at their new home.  They have three kids, roughly ages 7, 5, and 1.  <br />
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Anyone have any ideas?</div>

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			<dc:creator>MarissaNicole</dc:creator>
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			<title>Time Magazine Article on Attachment Parenting</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 15:53:55 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>http://www.time.com/time/covers/0,16641,20120521,00.html 
 
And...discuss.</description>
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And...discuss.</div>

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			<dc:creator>TulipsAndSunscreen</dc:creator>
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			<title>One car, two people?</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 14:35:17 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I'm wondering if anyone has advice on how to make one car work for two people. FH's car is having transmission problems (we'll know more next week)...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I'm wondering if anyone has advice on how to make one car work for two people. FH's car is having transmission problems (we'll know more next week) and may not be worth the repairs. We don't live in a place with good public transport, but fortunately I work from a home office, so most days I don't have to go anywhere during the day. So on the surface of things, it seems like it might not be too hard. The one hitch I can think of is that occasionally I need to travel for work (like 3-4x per year), and I fly out of an airport about 2 hours away, usually at times when FH would be in class. Is there anything else I need to consider?<br />
<br />
I'm thinking of going single car instead of buying another simply because we shouldn't spend the money. We're in the final stages of paying for a wedding, we both have a little left to pay off in undergrad loans, and we already have a monthly payment on my car... when he was about to start school we had 2 older cars and decided to trade one in while it was still worth something so we would have one reliable car. My income manages to pay all our bills and groceries (though not much extra), and his loans pay tuition (private med school), but we have also taken out some extra loans for living expenses, simply because when FH filled out the FAFSA for year 1 we'd never lived on one income before and hadn't even combined our accounts yet, and didn't know how it would work. Obviously we're trying to cut out the living loans from now on if at all possible. <br />
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So. That all said, I think we might go 1-car instead of paying for enormous repairs or a &quot;new&quot; car. Have any of you made this work? Any advice?</div>

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			<dc:creator>MsSassyBaskets</dc:creator>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 20:42:45 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[We are making canvas bags with the kids' handprints on them for Mother's Day. One for each grandma. But I just wonder its Mother's Day, not...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>We are making canvas bags with the kids' handprints on them for Mother's Day. One for each grandma. But I just wonder its Mother's Day, not grandparents' day, should I be getting my mom something and DH the same? Or are they going to be happy enough with the gifts from the kids. We're all having brunch together on Sunday.<br />
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I struggle with what to get my mom on a regular basis and DH will too...what do you do?</div>

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			<title>Post-Weaning Hormone Crash?</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 19:10:06 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>I may just have a case of garden variety crazy … but is it possible to have hormone swings/blues following weaning?  DS went on a nursing strike due...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I may just have a case of garden variety crazy … but is it possible to have hormone swings/blues following weaning?  DS went on a nursing strike due to an ear infection and hasn’t nursed in over a week.  I don’t want to tandem nurse, so I haven’t encouraged him to nurse and, as a result, it appears that he has officially weaned.  <br />
<br />
Emotionally, I’m okay with this.  We made it a year and DS hasn’t been asking to nurse and seems completely normal.  However, I also feel like I’ve been plunged into PMS hell.  I cried the entire way into work today for no reason and am constantly on the edge of tears.  I HATE feeling this out of control and am miserable.  <br />
<br />
Could this be weaning related?  In theory it makes since, but I just don’t know.  I don’t think it is pregnancy related.  I’m 16 weeks and haven’t had any of these symptoms before in any of my pregnancies.  But maybe?  I just can’t handle this much longer and am really hoping it’s a fleeting hormonal issue related to DS’s semi-sudden weaning.  :-(</div>

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			<dc:creator>Bittersweet</dc:creator>
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			<title>Breastfeeding questions</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 15:34:11 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Hey all, 
 
Forgive my absence as I've just been enjoying and adjusting to life with Minnie.  DH is also on vacation this week so he is finally...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Hey all,<br />
<br />
Forgive my absence as I've just been enjoying and adjusting to life with Minnie.  DH is also on vacation this week so he is finally getting some good time with her.  <br />
<br />
So I have a few questions, some which I think I know the answers to, others I have no clue.  I'd appreciate any help.<br />
<br />
1) DD is a screamer, and if I can get her to sleep with swaddling, shhing, swaying, and the paci I do... but sometimes I just can't handle the screaming (her voice is hoarse from screaming so much) and so sometimes I nurse just to console her or calm her enough to get her to sleep.  I think this is okay as she isn't even a month old.  Right?<br />
<br />
2)  I started pumping shortly after my milk came in to build up a supply.  At first I was getting about 2.5 oz each time.  Now I am only getting about 1-2 oz a time.  This makes me worry that she isn't getting enough milk from me if I'm only getting that amount out with the pump.  (As of now I just feed her on one side at a time, and if I pump I will pump the other side).  I feel like I should be getting 2-4 oz out of a breast... but really I have no idea.  I'm also afraid if I start nursing her on both sides at each feeding then I won't be able to build up a supply.  DD also only nurses about 10 minutes, which is how long I usually pump as nothing comes out after 10 or so minutes).  <br />
<br />
3) We've given her a bottle twice this week in which she SUCKED down every drop.  The one night we gave her 3 oz.  at 8 p.m.  She stayed awake until 10 p.m. and then slept until 5:30 in the morning.  She normally is a good sleeper anyway.  Feeds at about 9:30 and then again at 2:30 a.m. and 7:30 a.m. but it just has me wondering if she isn't getting as much milk as she'd like/need.  During the day she usually feeds about every 2-3 hours but sometimes I've been feeding her as much as every hour (usually in the evenings).  <br />
<br />
4) I drink a good amount of water and eat oatmeal almost every day.  I've started walking and light workouts again... could that have anything to do with my supply?  Is it possible my supply is normal?  Or should I be doing something to increase it?<br />
<br />
5) DD has lots of wet and dirty diapers... and I do have a doctors appt this week so I'm hoping that will confirm that she is continuing to gain weight.  But at about one month, how much milk should I be producing?<br />
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Thanks ladies!</div>

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			<dc:creator>MarissaNicole</dc:creator>
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			<title>Night Terrors</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 14:17:01 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>II figure N is way too young for these but she had an episode last night that was weird. She has been an awesome sleeper since about two months...she...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>II figure N is way too young for these but she had an episode last night that was weird. She has been an awesome sleeper since about two months...she would sleep from 10 pm to 5 am, wake up to &quot;sleep eat&quot; and then sleep with us until 7 or 8. Lately she has been really clingy, will freak out if I leave her alone in a room or walk away, and has been waking up more easily at night. The past week or so she will not sleep soundly unless she is held/sleeping with us. Doesn't seem too unusual from what I've heard though.<br />
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Last night we put her to bed and about an hour later she started screaming. J went I get her but he couldn't calm her down at all, normally all it takes is shushing and rocking and she is asleep or just wide awake and happy. This time she wouldn't wake up or open her eyes. The only thing that calmed her was nursing. She never really woke up. That's odd for her. J tried laying her down again and she immediately started screaming again, but didn't wake up. We tried a couple of times and as soon as we wasn't held she freaked even though she still looked like she was sleeping. Eventually she just ended up with us all night. I tried putting her down after she had been soundly sleeping with us for an hour and still no dice. She was fine this morning.<br />
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I guess none of this really sounds like night terrors except the initial waking reaction. She just has never done this before...it seemed really odd. I initially thought she was in pain but we couldn't figure anything out. This is normal right?</div>

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			<dc:creator>SoonerTexan</dc:creator>
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			<title>New favorite trail mix</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 02:13:52 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>DD1 and I tossed this together earlier and holy wow is it yummy.  
  
2 handfuls of raw pecans 
2 handfuls of raw walnuts 
1 handful roasted, salted,...</description>
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 <br />
2 handfuls of raw pecans<br />
2 handfuls of raw walnuts<br />
1 handful roasted, salted, shelled pistachios (they come shelled at Sam's, and all we had left one one handful;))<br />
2 handfuls of raisins<br />
2 handfuls of unsweetened coconut flakes<br />
2 (or 3...) handfuls of Ghirardelli 60% cacao chips (they have soy lecithin in them, but you can't have it all, I guess)</div>

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			<dc:creator>BonBon</dc:creator>
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			<title><![CDATA[Thing I never thought I'd say]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 21:14:17 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Since we have lots of kids say the darnedest....   
 
What about parents?  What have you said??? 
 
Me-- just now to my 7 year old. "get your hands...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Since we have lots of kids say the darnedest....  <br />
<br />
What about parents?  What have you said???<br />
<br />
Me-- just now to my 7 year old. &quot;get your hands out of your pants and set the table.&quot;<br />
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He was just playing with the waist band of his shorts, but that sounded really bad lol!!!</div>

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			<title>ATT Help!</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 17:22:50 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Ugh.  I feel awful!!  I reset my moms email password and I forgot it.  In all my attempts to guess it, I locked her account.  NO ONE at att will help...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Ugh.  I feel awful!!  I reset my moms email password and I forgot it.  In all my attempts to guess it, I locked her account.  NO ONE at att will help me because &quot;its a free email account and we have no authority to do anything with it.&quot;<br />
<br />
FUCK!<br />
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Anyone have any suggestions??</div>

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			<title>Kudos, Warm Fuzzies, and Adoration (for iMSN and Kris)</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 12:23:34 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>...From my DH (and me). Last night, DH spent 20 minutes telling me how wonderful iMSN is and how grateful he is to Kris for creating it. He feels...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>...From my DH (and me). Last night, DH spent 20 minutes telling me how wonderful iMSN is and how grateful he is to Kris for creating it. He feels that this forum has been so beneficial not only for me but for him and our children as we've gone through our residency. You all have been our friends, advisors, confidants, and cheerleaders through a continuing journey that can be overwhelming and lonely not to mention brutal for a marriage. The collective knowledge of this group is amazing and we are so grateful for your insight on everything from medical training, child-rearing, pet care, marriage matters, IL management, finances, sex, relocating, and why all my t-shirts have tiny holes in the bottom. Thank you! You all are fabulous.<br />
<br />
:hug: :hug: :hug: (for every one of you!)</div>

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